Monday, July 29, 2024
The Paris Olympic Games
Thursday, July 18, 2024
Nature and Desires
Nature and Desires
Many of us do get it.
That the holy books do say this.
Your earthy life is so very short.
Do not waste a minute of it.
Question is can we plumb what it means.
They do add to statements like the above.
They do continue to say and admonish.
Unreasoning nature wants more.
A lot more than what is necessary.
To become the master of our destiny,
we rid ourselves of all inordinate desires.
Learn to live with less and more for eternity.
Remembering desires are not just things
but include all the pleasant allures life offers.
Tuesday, July 16, 2024
Depression
DEPRESSION
The insidious malady called depression came to mind,
when two very noted personalities we read were said to be suffering from it.
One a very young world-renowned lady athlete,
while the other a former president of the Philippines in his 60's.
The latter had since passed on.
Over the years we had heard so much about this condition
But kept a safe distance of the topic paying only nodding attention.
But now we are told that the world has seen its prevalence.
And with large numbers in agony, we give it its due attention
It is a very real, consumptive, and debilitating ailment.
Worse, it could also be career-ending and life-threatening.
Necessitating professionals specialized in such conditions.
We had nonchalantly associated depression with loneliness, or melancholy.
Not giving it the gravity that it deserved.
Now medical professionals labor and toil to do something.
Many of us also went through such forlorn periods of feeling very low,
at times we did not even want to get out of our beds to face the world.
I remember my own episodes when I was still single and unemployed.
But somehow we out-grew it though not that the condition has deserted us for life,
but somehow we have been able to lessen not only its gravity but its frequency.
Somehow also we learned to tackle with it, each in our own ways.
Maybe the resolution being when we turned to a higher power
and lodged the providence of our health and safety in that kind of faith.
Still as mere mortals with very limited knowledge and understanding
of such an insidious and almost invisible enemy,
We surrender our ignorance and abide our trust on others.
To those educated as better equipped.
We should resolve to continue our own searches for truths about it.
And thus they ought not be stifled, neglected, or even dismissed by others.
We can only be better persons if we are curious about its ramifications.
In the midst of all this, may it also be incumbent that as a species,
we duly acknowledge that we have changed a lot,
occasioned by a civilization that has gotten more and more complicated.
Worsened by our having to live in very close quarters with so diverse peoples
with very diverse ideas.
It could be likened to what is happening in the US since the last several years.
And happening to younger and more educated people.
They are angrier, more and more intolerant, and very hateful.
And appearing quite ill-equipped to handle challenges in daily life.
Thus, we see this erupting in violence and other forms of miscreant behavior.
Monday, July 15, 2024
A Little Backgrounder: Historic Vista Hermosa
A Little Backgrounder: Historic Vista Hermosa
On this historic site atop the first Carmen Hill crest.
It was in the mid-60's. And the place was as pristine and untouched as an unutilized place could get. It was owned by a first cousin, Engr. Edgardo N. Marfori. Truant kids around the area would wander thereabouts picking up wild fruits like guavas during idle and hot summer days. As forgettable a place as any during those idyllic days of the city. But one redeeming factor was the spectacular view of the city on its crest. The old poblacion shone in great light and glory from that vantage point. None like it in the city.
But the Christmas holidays were approaching, days when the lazy city would get festive and lively. Organizations woke up from slumber and started preparations for the coming holidays.
I was president of the Commerce fraternity and Ms. Rose Chan was president of the sorority of XU. Bro. Paulino Santos was adviser. We wanted some thing novel and startling for our festivities, especially for the dance and program as culmination for the celebrations. Good idea. But where? So it could be really novel and a first.
That lonely undeveloped hilltop came to our collective minds. Once decided we realized the monumental task involved. At least monumental during that time. There was no road going to the top, though we knew a jeep could negotiate it with 4-wheel drive if necessary. No electricity. No structure of any kind. It was literally in the jungle!
Getting my cousin to say yes for the use of the place was no problem. Bro. Santos was a close friend of wife Nang Lili. But the other issues were challenging to say the least.
But somehow all sticky challenges were met and overtaken. Bro Santos with the help of school resources was able to bring a generator for our lights, and many wooden pallets as dance floor and stage. Prior trips to the top with jeeps and trucks established the paths for vehicles on their ascent.
And our members had a most memorable time during that happy festive night. It was a First, indeed.
Inspired no doubt by our very positive feedbacks, It was not long afterward that my cousin broached his idea of creating a hotel on this historic hilltop. The first of its kind! It became Vista Hermosa Hotel.
And no doubt, the view was beautiful! But It had since then been converted into the Pryce Plaza Hotel which has to his day been shuttered.