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Friday, April 18, 2025

Uncharitable Talk

 No doubt modern man is not now only predisposed to making rash judgment against his neighbor, but this he does with relative ease and speed.

For this we need only take a peek at social media for confirmation.

Premise. This much we know.

We tend to believe everything we hear of our neighbor.  And then we make judgment, typically with prejudice, regardless how little we know of our targets.

In reality to judge others with prejudice is no easy task.  Only wise men or God could do that justly.

This difficulty is heightened by many factors we are saddled with. Our temperament.   Tastes.  Moods. Ambitions, and yes, even our own self-righteousness.

Thus best to leave judgments to others more capable and more invested.  

One may even know better than the one being criticized.  

But remember one can never discern the hidden motives of the doer.

The feeling of superiority when one harshly criticizes another is one very strong drive. And this feeling gets heightened even more when one willfully exaggerates the faults of others.

To Think About.

That our passion could work either for good or for something else.

The passion we exhibit for the people we love and hold dear is good. 

Limited in superlative expression only by our innate reservations.

But the passion we show for the people we abhor or dislike is something else.

Circumspection is the abiding rule, cognizant of that phrase in the Our Father that pleads for God's compassion, 

" forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us..."

He who loves much, cannot be said to also hate much. 

Monday, April 14, 2025

The Lesson In Life

 As we approach life's impending end,

A question left to be posed and answered.

What is Jesus Christ to me?


If at that point we still have not realized this.

That the only saving grace in love is to suffer.

Then we sorely missed our fated end.


That life is nothing more than a yearning to give.

And to toil and to endure trials and tribulations.

Then we misunderstood the lessons strewn our way.


That life is not one serene and cozy love fest. 

Where  peace and harmony reign supreme.

 That we still cling to wordily delights that fade


Life is one messy hodgepodge of petty stuff.

That will blind one from our eternal destiny.

Be careful then lest we lose our way.

 

The Air We Breathe

 Those who study and gaze at the stars and heavens tell us that the one constant we can find in our firmament is the air we breathe.  The basic molecules in the air are the same they were for a very long time. Thus they dreamily opine that the very air we breathe could be the same one as breathed in or exhaled by those who came before us.  

Like an Einstein?  Why not.  After all, we air-breathing mammals use air like it is literally going out of business.  How many times do we breathe in and out each day?  In my advanced stage, I can only hold without breathing for under 2 minutes. 

Not knowing enough of the current pandemic scourge, what is to say that it is not in the very air we are now breathing?  That maybe the situation is that some of us simply are susceptible, or some are infective, or others resistant?

The last global pandemic (the Spanish flu in 1918) killed millions around the globe.  Is the virus that caused it gone?  No scientist is claiming that.  And it holds true for the other viruses that have plagued man in all of recorded history.

So?

If so, no amount of preparation, however detailed, minute or grand, could guarantee that each of us could not get it.

 Let us just all be sensible.  As sensible as we each individually understand and could prevent it.  As they say, only God knows.

 Or said differently, not to agonize too much over future ills or problems, sufficient are the problems of the present.

Wednesday, April 09, 2025

Lenten Week: How Things Have Changed.

 Lenten Week: How Things Have Changed.


Not too long ago drilled into our minds was this pious thought.

Holy Week of Lent was a season for fasting and sacrifice. 


An apt time for reverential solitude amidst the din of daily living.

  

Time to bear the burden of possible tribulations and vicissitudes 

we could all possibly  endure and should.


These we cramped in those few days of the Lenten season, 

in imitation of the examples set by Christ.


But now when Semana Santa rolls along, 

our harried mind wanders elsewhere.


It starts dreaming of possible hideaways and getaways 

we can hie to and sequester ourselves and families.


All  to escape the hustle and bustle of city life, 

the torrid tropic heat and deafening chaos of urban living.

 

In other words, with sacrifices bearing down on all, 

we seek to enjoy the few days in ease and comfort.


Yet He did counsel, take up my cross and follow me!  

For only this path leads to eternal life.


We have to empty our vessels with temporal pursuits 

and bow in humble prayer, so we can let Christ in.

Tuesday, February 11, 2025

Siargao On My Mind

 


The way I see it.

Call it the mystique or lure of places like Siargao.

It is simply a confluence of a couple of very strong drives.

First, the foreign young and impressionable tourists who are lured to the islands looking for thrill-heavy adventure in environment very different from their own, where they can feel and are treated like royalty by the locals.  

But unlike before, many of them are now coming not because they belong to the rich elites in their own countries but as regular folks able to travel because of mobility and overall affordability, helped by the lower costs of living in the islands.

Second, the local boys, whether as potential Lotharios, swains, or simply as indolent beach bums with not much else to do, who are quite beside themselves in friendliness and helpfulness.  This they show in their ready and easy patronizing ways with these Westerners, who we have to admit must appear very attractive and desirable to them. 

All this must conspire whether wittingly or unwittingly -  their very fair and smooth skin, well defined physical attributes, light-color hair, cute English accents, highlighted and accentuated by their very revealing beach wear.  All dovetailing to the typical Filipinos' standards of pulchritude. It must appear as like Eden for the locals.  Like surreal living in the movies. Or as dream experiences of a lifetime.

Put these two irresistible forces together, and who knows.  Anything goes?  The locals never had it so good.  So do the foreigners.

Brings me back to the memories of Pitcairn Island, as it figured in the book, Mutiny on the Bounty, which account was based on real-life events.

The all-male mutineers led by Fletcher Christian hid themselves in this remote island in the Pacific and intermarried with the natives.  Now Pitcairn Island is peopled by the descendants of those men and their native spouses.

Who knows in the near future Siargao could be peopled by a new strain of Filipinos, unique and distinct from the rest. 


Monday, January 27, 2025

Elvis On My Mind

 

 

Cagayan de Oro in the largely-forgotten 50's was one city in Northern Mindanao like most other Philippine cities in that milieu. Quiet and peaceful, and slow of pace.  Its people happily rustic in their ways and living. But none the worse for wear, not really knowing any better.

As its youth, we fostered our growing up in slo-mo gait, attending to our primary responsibility of education with dull submission, it being one of a few preoccupation that filled our days.   We went to a nearby Jesuit school run by mostly American Jesuits, giving us exposure to the fabled West and its domineering culture.  We lapped up with gusto this multifaceted enlightenment we were introduced to, soaking up their cultural values, religious practices, greatly nuanced politics, and most everything in between. One could say as collective obeisance to the colonial mentality that ruled our lives.

In that milieu, we might as well have grown up in the US idolizing it in its many cultural iterations with minds subliminally opened though maybe just half-awake.

We learned about American sports engaged by amazing super athletes, grandiose singers with heavenly voices, heroic politicians from various sectors, etc.  And this preoccupied whatever free idle time we had, which during that time took a good chunk of our youth since there was not much else to do in those halcyon days of youth.  In that sleepy town of yesteryears..

Then in early 1955, our typically-torpid existence was suddenly rocked by an irreverent hillbilly artist emanating from the emergent pop culture that catered to us..  Rock and roll was slowly changing the local landscape, fueled by the daily musical offerings oozing out from our solitary local radio station.  

One icky morning became quite unlike other mornings, because some unlikely spark broke through the languid morning air, with the loud introduction of the first song of that irreverent new singer. His singing literally delivered in some kind of controlled shouting.  The song was billed, I Want You, I Need You, I Love You. Our favorite morning DJ (named Amador Factura)  had prefaced this song by introducing  its brash singer as one Elvis Presley.  A quite unusual name for a singer, we had thought.  We knew nobody, or heard of anybody, named Elvis.

Anyway, sight unseen, we listened intently to his song which was like no other that we had heard in the past. The delivery, as recorded already judged as coarse and amateurish, definitely caught us off guard and made us curious who this guy was.  But there was nothing much of him that we knew.  The local news and the national papers that reached us did not really consider him newsworthy enough to fuss about.  At least, not during that early hazy time.

But it did not last long. Because when this singer issued out in quick succession a barrage of similar songs in his home country, the brewing storm exploded.  And no known force seemed able to stop the onslaught. The avid curiosity of youth could not be contained.  They had to know and experience.

But why?

Now in hindsight and after reviewing the whole phenomenon, it is quite difficult to understand. The passage of time definitely had changed or mellowed perspectives, from tender youth to grizzled old age.

Listening to the song now is akin to listening to a typical teenager straining in his clumsy ways to express his art. Using very coarse methods and technology in very amateurish ways.   But this time minus the hypnotic aura once felt, that took over one's consciousness in very unavoidable way. I now admit this time without the foolishness and cluelessness of idle youth.

As epilogue, it is apt to confess that during that time, there indeed was a another older, more staid and mainstream, singer that expressed his craft in similar ways. Full-throated and with great tortured emotion.  His name was Johnnie  Ray.  And he became famous for his rendition of the song, Cry.

Though he had broken into the limelight ahead of the hillbilly, he never was accorded the kind of scrutiny and notice, and fame, as the other.  At least not in our milieu.

Ray's nice clothes, close-cropped hairstyle, and refined ways may have worked against him, rather than help.  Like pigeonholing  him as part of the encrusted establishment against the emergent and  snowballing populist figure. 


Postscript 

In those heady days that we had found ourselves lost in, we tried to learn as much as we could about this mysterious phenom. But with our very limited resources and remote location, we did not really know about him save for his early songs that we would hear on the local radio. 

Beyond that nothing much for me, until one day an elder brother had brought home from school a small magazine booklet which was then called "songhits". It was essentially a publication which listed down popular songs, their lyrics, the record labels, and of course, the singers. And the cover showed the singers who figured prominently in particular issues. It was our teaching aid in learning the songs we had heard and were fond of. 

The front cover typically in color featured the big-time singers of the day. And at the back in black and white, the upcoming sensations. As I recall in this particular issue at the back, was this rather uncomplimentary black and white picture of a sneering young man with long unruly hair and very long and lush sideburns. His upturned thick lips giving one the impression of anger and rebellion.

To the point that my elder brother thought he had looked like Jack Palance, the top villain actor in that milieu. To which I had fiercely disagreed. 

Still, this young singer would be known famously, or infamously, for his upturned lips and wild sideburns, and his devilish gyrating hips, in his early years.

Thursday, January 16, 2025

In Memoriam: Jeanette Willkom Dunn Aragon.


 Read about the demise of Jean from one of her close relatives, and it came more than just as a surprise from nowhere.  It was so least expected, given her passion and energy, and zest for life.  Even though by all standards she had already lived a full life - studied, worked, raised a family, and enjoyed retirement.

Because of social media, we never really were unconnected since we had known each other. Which acquaintance really was not that long compared to our other contemporary friends.

Though we had known "of each other" since our childhood days in Cagayan de Oro, I never really knew Jean until the later part of our stay in the US, particularly after our retirement.  After which time, we started re-connecting with people from the old homeland, and reminiscing about the many common experiences shared during our youth.

I could say that we shared also common ideologies and beliefs in politics, values, and maybe life in general.  At some point Jean also tried re-settling in the old homeland like we did. After a while her thinking changed not just because of the changed conditions in the old homeland which I am sure she also found alienating, but also because like us her loved ones and other family members are still in the US.

Even as late as a few weeks or so ago, we on occasion shared in our FB timelines our own perception of what we believed to be truths in the political life in the US.  And like me, I also sensed in her a deep belief in and commitment on the same issues and values.  And I continued to admire her for taking such stances which clearly were not popular among our circles of friends and acquaintances. Maybe the poet in her gave her the clarity of her thoughts and the strength to pursue and adhere to her principles.

I will miss her personally and so will I am sure many of her loved ones and close acquaintances, and those who have had interaction with her in the past.

Rest in peace, Jean.  You have done your part.  And I can declare unreservedly that our lives had been blest and had become better because of the examples you showed in your living your life.  And we shall then continue to live our lives inspired by those sterling gems.

Thursday, January 09, 2025

The Lamentable History of CDO Development


The Lamentable History of CDO Development


Once upon a time, there was a poblacion small and quaint, and purposely traversed by a tree-lined park called Divisoria. it was a dull and lazy town by all accounts.


People gathered around that community, mostly walking from one corner to the other via its narrow unpaved streets, either to do daily communal chores or to visit. If not, then using the few cars available. 0r via the ubiquitous tartanillas which noisily clip-clopped around its graveled streets.


Traffic gridlock was non-existent.  Not even the concept of vehicular traffic bothered its consciousness.  Nonetheless, nobody in his right mind considered the situation as one of privation or a sad status of under-privileged living.


Then it started growing.


The public market situated right in the middle of the named park got dirty and unwieldy.  So it was quickly moved to an outlying area covered with cogon grass.  The unwieldy congestion  in the poblacion was immediately relieved.


Years later, the market in Cogon got unruly, so it became necessary to open up Agora market which is geographically I believe part of old Puntod.


More years later, the poblacion now turned into a fast-growing city had to spread out to nearby Lapasan to accommodate the burgeoning growth and to try and mitigate the lurking traffic situation.  The birth of the local mall was the immediate result.


Aside from all these, the city starting bursting at the seams, from west to east.  From Carmen  to Puerto.  From southwest to southeast.  All these giving actuality to  the monstrosity we now call traffic.


So the entire uptown (Lumbia) was opened up and rapid development started with the earnest hope of spreading out the city and relieving the growing traffic situation.  And a so-called nascent "metropolis" was being nurtured and nursed.


But one thing for certain, none of these good-intentioned moves have improved the perceived traffic situation, long enough to be noticed and appreciated.  Instead what is undeniable, all these brought more rather than less traffic problems.  


The hydra being curbed has instead grown more loathsome heads.  Ironic for a city the size of which is almost 420 square kilometers with population counted at well under a million.


Wednesday, January 01, 2025

Unconditional Love

 


We are wont to declare our unconditional love.

Be they for beloved acquaintances or relations.

And most accept as true readily with nary a doubt.


But we forget that only God deserves such.

Whether here or above all others take second place.

For our zealous God demands such fullness of love.


The amount of love man can bestow on creation

Has been strictly delineated by His Divine laws.

Strictures setting boundaries for our human loves.


Let us then remember this strict boundary.

For to forget would redound to our peril.

God gave all, and demands all in return.

2 B 83

 2 B 83


We count people, trees, even distance.

We count most anything that comes in numbers

We love counting our money, our loves, our whims.

Maybe  not be too eagerly, we also count our years.


In slow cadence of years, we count our time on earth.

For many, we count with anticipation and hope. 

But others do count with some trepidation.

But due to inevitability we cannot do otherwise.


Natal days then are marked with rapt attention.

Gleefully for others, but forlornly for some.

But what can one do to liven the result?

Simply that we align our lives to our purposes.


Only then counting amounts to any significance.

For then it means we are edging closer to eternity.

For the rungs climbed leadeth closer to home.

The home where counting ceaseth forever.